Fundamentals: The 3 Rules
Wednesday, August 13th, 2008I’ve been doing a lot of mental meandering lately. I just found out that I’m pregnant with our third child - which delights me - but as I’ve mentioned elsewhere, the initial finding out always makes me stop and think.
The 3 Rules
As far as writing goes, I realize that it’s easy to pile on ideas and methods and to lose the basic truths of both writing integrity and freelance success. I have three rules that are my basics:
1. Create.
2. Refill.
3. Offer.
How are those for some intangible verbs? Now, freelancers, go forth: create! refill! offer!
Blank faces look back at me. “Huh?”
Let me ’splain. No, is too much. Let me sum up.
1. Create = write a lot.
2. Refill = read, listen, experience, do, interact a lot.
3. Submit, apply, query, submit, apply, query, submit, apply, query, submit, apply, query. Repeat.
Rules and/or Methods?
The trick is how to get those three rules happening in your life on a consistent basis. They must be part of life, constantly. They can’t be quirks or sometimes-events or okay-if-I-have-time items. They have to happen like breathing and sleeping and eating happen. Without fail. As if your life depends on it, because as a freelance writer, your life does depend on your success at living those three little verbs.
The methods can change, and should change, with the flow of life, with personality, with seasons. The mistake we make as freelancers is to get so caught up in adhering to our methods that we don’t see when it fails to work for us. Hang on to the rules for dear life, but let your methods flex with the days. The one that works for you at this time might not work a year from now, or even a month from now.
A Quiet Revolution
I would like to see a quiet revolution in the world of writers. I would like to see an end to jokes like this one:
I’m not offended. I laugh, because I know the feeling. You do, too, probably. But why do we let that sort of hopeless, wasted, unproductive ritual become a way of life?
I’m not sure why, but I think much of our problems come from failing to recognize and adhere to the fundamentals of writing. I’m not talking about using terminal commas or proper hyphenation. I’m talking about the truth that
“…everything in life is writable about if you have the outgoing guts to do it, and the imagination to improvise. The worst enemy to creativity is self-doubt.” ~Sylvia Plath
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The basics are writing (creation), living, reading, doing, being (refilling yourself), and then offering what you have created, over and over and over and over again. It’s all part of the process. And it’s a good process.





I am having hard time making some scheduling decisions this month. I have a client who could potentially take up all of March, which is fine, as the pay also meets my March income goals. However, it is most likely that that pay won’t come until April, leaving my March income very skimpy.

